the Self Study Papers
Welcome to the blog by the Duality Project. We're so glad you're here. Within these papers, you'll find stories, explorations of ideas, emotions, and learnings. Take what you need and leave the rest.
Storytime with Ruby
As of yesterday Jake (my husband) and I have lived in Colorado for 500 days. My favorite parts about being here are our apartment mountain view and having my sister as my neighbor.
Being somewhere new takes time to acclimate, but I'm not sure I'll ever get used to people at...
Storytime with Kate
Ruby and I have just hired a coach for our business.
We've been stuck.
Stuck on marketing, stuck on sales, not getting what we want out of the business we've been pursuing since our early 20s. Building this business has been on the sidelines of our lives going on 10 years.
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When I first entered the work of Self Study, my eyes were opened to the inequities of the world. I began learning the ways that I've perpetuated systems of oppression within my own life as a white woman, and I started seeing how the systems were rigged against my humanness, and others.
A lot of...
Every day you make choices for yourself - the choice to get out of bed or not. The choice to brush your teeth or not. The choice to do something about the burnout that you know is coming or to come home to yourself. The choice to do it the same way you've done it every day in the past or to do...
Every day you make choices for yourself - the choice to get out of bed or not. The choice to brush your teeth or not. The choice to perpetuate harm or to be a source of healing. The choice to do it the same way you've done it every day in the past or to do something differently.
A lot...
Every day you make choices for yourself - the choice to get out of bed or not. The choice to brush your teeth or not. The choice to do it the way your parents or caregivers did it or to do it differently. The choice to do it the same way you've done it every day in the past or to do something...
I came across a post on Instagram the other day where the person was talking about how 'you really can have it all,' and I got to thinking...
WHAT DOES THAT EVEN MEAN?
What does it mean to 'have it all'?
We are constantly bombarded with messages of 'you can have it all' via every social media...
It’s been a minute, hasn’t it! For the past many months (2 years of COVID-times, ya know), the Duality Project has been moving and shaking...
*and resting and adventuring and inviting new chapters and studying and grieving and learning and growing and rejuvenating.*
We are THRILLED...
